Nigerian YouTuber Official Nma opened her relationship commentary by addressing men who wonder why a woman leaves even after receiving time, effort and money.
“You start asking the wrong question,” she said. “Was I not good enough? What did I do wrong?”
She explained that “women are loyal to how they feel,” stressing that it is “not particularly who you are” that matters most, but the emotional experience she has when she is with you. According to her, “how you make her feel is more important than what you give.”
Nma pointed out that gifts, money and saying “I love you 100 times a day” may play a role, but peace and emotional safety weigh more.
“If you’re always chasing her, you’re always acting needy,” she said. “She’ll always feel pressure, not peace.”
Her advice to men was clear; “Try being steady, calm and confident.”
She also emphasized ambition. “Girls respect men who have mission,” she stated.
“Women don’t like men that have no ambition, that have no goals.” She encouraged men to show they are “on the path towards that goal,” saying it makes a woman desire to be part of that future.
