The recent passing of actor Malcolm-Jamal Warner has sparked a wave of heartfelt tributes, especially among Black Gen Xers who grew up watching him as “Theo Huxtable” on The Cosby Show.
In a Facebook post sighted by MyNewsGh, user DeSean Grayson articulates why the loss feels so personal to a generation.
“So it took me a minute. But I think I can put into words why the death of Malcolm Jamal Warner has hit many of us Black GenXers so hard,” Grayson began.
He reflects on Warner’s impact as one of the earliest positive portrayals of a young Black male on mainstream television. Unlike earlier characters like JJ from Good Times or Willis and Arnold from Diff’rent Strokes, Theo was different — grounded in a stable, upper-middle-class Black family.
“Theo was not the buffoon that JJ was. He was not the orphan rescued by some benevolent White savior that Willis and Arnold were. Theo had both his parents,” he wrote.
“Malcolm knew how important this role was and how much of an icon he was because of it.”
Grayson recalled how Theo’s character influenced real-life decisions for many of his peers, including his own college aspirations.
“Theo Huxtable is the only reason I even considered NYU… I never learned what dyslexia even was until Theo.”
Beyond The Cosby Show, Grayson praised Warner’s intentional choices in roles, like his portrayal of a young business owner in Malcolm & Eddie, and his later artistic expression through poetry and music.
“Malcolm Jamal Warner was a Black MAN; multi-dimensional, artistic, Black,” he wrote, adding that Warner’s openness to tenderness and creativity challenged stereotypes about Black masculinity.
The tribute closes with an emotional acknowledgment of the shared journey between Warner and his viewers.
“We came of age with Malcolm. We watched him on TV. And he became a part of us. This is part of why the news hits us so differently. Peace be upon his soul. Love and support to his family.”
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